Personnally I prefer m/m scenes/romances, which kinda needs a lover with a masculine body type, and them only having parts is just not the same
Well it´s good to see that someone would rather choose Ben I guess he/she really is the ultimate husbando/waifu.
Plus there's the whole pronoun thing to consider. But it's true Ben/Bess' romance plot is very good ^^
I know the pronouns can mean a world of difference. Terry is another good example of that. I prefer to call her a she
Btw. Not sure I´ve told you already, but I love your avatar. So cute