Going to have to call you out here because this opinion is just asinine.
I mean you can disagree all you like but lets stay away from the insults yeah? No need to take things personally here, its just a discussion.
as Acharehnus pointed out you didn't address anyones complaints directly
I didn't think it was appropriate to dig through the thread and reply to people who may have been done with the conversation. My reply to this thread wasn't to any one person or point in particular (save when I was directly responding to someone) it was just me sharing my own thoughts and opinions on the matter in broader strokes. To be clear though I'm not coming into this thread with a "Me VS them" mentality. Asking me to pour over every single post in this thread and write up a counter-argument to every single one is a little absurd isn't it? Its not like this is some court room proceeding where the burden of proof lies with just a single party. At the end of the day people are allowed to like or dislike whatever they want and as much as I may enjoy discussing both sides of a subject I'm not going to try and force anyone to change their mind.
They have have sat in the marches 200 years and have REFUSED to engage with the natives in any meaningful capicity...
As many have pointed out in this thread, their complete isolationist stance sees them disconnected from the rest of the game...
The boreal elves do literally the same thing but nobody hates on them for it. The elves, much like the kitsune, have been living behind their own walls since the godswar ended and only when the Champ comes along do things change. I'd argue that the elves are even more disconnected from the rest of the game considering that you don't really get the chance to interact with them in their city beyond the royal entourage and Ryn's dates. Telfir, the elven tailor we meet during one of Ryn's dates, doesn't even have his own spot in the city or an image bust despite the fact that he can help you upgrade the wayfort. So is it really their isolastionism that's the issue here? Clearly not, especially when we don't see the elves recieving any flak for the exact same behavior.
(and no them asking first does not make it in anyway okay for them to take it by force)
I never said it did. The kitsune do have their law for equivilent exchange though so nothing is taken without a proper reward, it just so happens that those rewards take the form of sexual favors because this is an adult game. If we expand the scope of reasoning to include non-video game responses though I'm sure you could just as easily recieve some other form of compensation. "But CC, that still doesn't make it okay!" you're thinking at this very moment and I agree with you! However I do have a counter-argument; The mino's that roam the undermountain will also sexually assault anybody passing through the area but they don't treat it as a fair exchange, they literally refer to the Champ and their party as "holes" and then immedietly attack. So again we have an example of another race doing the exact same behavior as the kitsune (worse in this case imo) yet recieving none of the same hate.
there treatment of non-kitsune ranges from dismisive to total passive agressive hostility.
See my example about "being the bosses secretary" above. If that still doesn't work for you then lets take a little trip to the society and culture section of the kitsune codex entry;
"In foreign lands, they are often considered more akin to monsters than civilized peoples by the native folk, and much energy and concern is directed towards getting sustenance without provoking the locals into driving them out."
So basically kitsune are widely discriminated against and looked down upon by outsiders, potentially to the point of being persecuted. Yet somehow they should be expected to instantly warm up to some random outsider who just days ago was seen fighting other kitsune and causing problems? Did anyone ever actually stop to read the lore and maybe think that their standoffish attitude towards non-kitsune made sense? They're aware of their own nature and need to consume lifeforce but thats a huge reason for all their rules. Also consider the fact that just because you live near somebody doesn't mean you need to be their friend. Do you know every single person you lives near you and have a close personal friendship with them? Of course not, because its not realistic.
It is also pointed out repeatedly on this thread that they are a very shallow, weebish dipiction of Japanese people that many are frustrated with. Likely feeling it does a diservice to actual Japanes people.
This is a joke right? I mean I feel confident in saying that literally everybody here playing this game is a weeb to some degree. We're all cringey degenerates playing an adult game and rubbing one out to fancy erotic words. Lets get off our high horses for a minute and really take a step back to look in a mirror. Would we honestly be able to come up with something that wasn't just a little bit cringey by someone elses standards? This is just a weird thing to pick in my opinion because if you really don't like the content then you can just skip it. Its also not like anybody out here is claiming that the Minos and their depiction of Roman/Greek culture is doing a disservice to real modern day people living in Greece. So again, why is it okay for another race in the game but suddenly not okay for kitsune?
Lastly and excarbating all of this is Tobs' writing which takes a general "my way or the highway" attitude towards player agency. Dictating the PCs thoughts to them, having the PC go along with whatever another character says or does, offering absolutely no options for pushback, indictment or even just distaste for other characters actions and mannerisms.
Please show me places in the game where the Champ is capable of interuppting a scene and choosing an option that allows for pushback or expressing distaste of another character. I have a hard time recalling any point in the game where the player was given the agency and freedom you're describing. 90% of our choices in the game as a player revolves around consenting or not consenting to certain sexual acts. Very few, if any, choices allow you to suddenly outright declare your distaste for another character. Its widely assumed that players will just avoid any content they don't enjoy and that's an acceptable answer for the rest of the game so why is it not okay for the kitsune? Its not like you can admonish Cait for her openly sexual lifestyle or get angry at Atugia for jumping to conclusions and attacking you, and those are actual companions. If you can't get that level of depth from a companion character then why would you assume you'd get it from random NPC's?
He created this content explicitly wanting players to feel their xenophobia and prejudice and be made uncomfortable by it. Players can either engage with the content the way he wants them to or not at all.
I mean he's not a god, he can't control how you feel or react to things. As an author he can have a goal in mind for a certain feeling he wants a scene to give off but beyond that its totally all you. This is evident by the fact that people still love the kitsune content. I myself don't feel uncomfortable by it at all because I feel like it makes sense considering their history, culture and perspective. But as I've said before you don't need to engage in any content you don't like, its not as though anyone is holding a gun to your head and forcing the matter.
I implore you to go back to the beginning of this thread and actually read through what people have said about the content and get a full picture of how they feel about it.
I'll respond to anyone who cares to respond to me but I'm not going to go through this entire thread and create detailed responses to every single post people made in the past just because you want me to. Like I said above, I'm not here to fight a battle or force anyone to change their minds. Its just a discussion.
In conclusion I have a thing I'd like to mention; Most of the main points that were brought up here as viable reasons to hate the kitsune are things that other races in the game are also guilty of doing yet they don't ever get brought up. I think this is some sort of fallacy and it amuses me.