I agree to an extent but I see what you are saying, this convo is ntn but spoilers for me cause I'm a public user; tho I disagree on the "to me, this is one of those cases where I try more to focus on what my character would do than what I would do. And I think that if my straight, no-dick-please character loves Ryn as much as he's supposed to, he's very much willing to make an exception for her because of just how much she means to him" Bit -are you roleplaying or just playing a role? There is a difference and the writing pushing you to her doesn't justify forcing the player to take it up the ass if they don't want to. I'm a Ryn lover but that doesn't fly with me but I can't ignore her because she's plot-relevant.
Another thing I've known for a while now but despise is the fact that Ryn shares El with you, El is everyone's girl, Ryn deserves better; like I'd like us to have the ability to give her a vag without removing the D. (maybe a couple of touch-ups to her lingerie scene, some sleeping scenes, and a new sex scene would be needed) or have us hook her up with some else. (I like when side characters get relevance through the game and it's both a notch in the CoC2 belt and its hiccups but this instance just doesn't feel right.)
Vag was vetoed on the simple basis that Ryn already is nearly broken code-wise with her existing transform parsers and stuff, it would just be too much. Not to mention all of the scenes that need to be
drastically rewritten... and then you have the fact that Ryn herself several times specifically says she doesn't want one in-game. Now, arguably the cumflation scenes kinda alluded to her being pregged at some point, but that was apparently mostly just bedtime talk, as opposed to something Ryn wants, and if you do milky scenes with her for example, or a few others, it's kinda clear what was always her preference, to be able to knock up the Champ at some point in the future. Failing that however, Ryn
needs to knock up
someone just on the basis of being last surviving non-demonic heir of the royal line. It's her literal duty that superceedes anyything else, so if champ lacks the part, someone else needs to step in, and Elthara is the most obvious alternative, especially since she's not everyone's girl, she's
your girl on the same basis as Brienne for example, she won't ever fuck anyone else unless she has your say so, even when she has similar insane needs as Brienne does. So you get together with Ryn and your best girl who's also Ryn's close adviser and a respected noble in her own right and make an heir. Or you don't, and Ryn presumably has to find someone else without you.