Understood, that was a big part of the discussion as i remember it but the consensus was that if the devs started altering the accepted jargon that'd either cause confusion or be endlessly chipped away at as words evolve and old terms become 'problematic', the decision was to stick to a system similar to porn website tags, everyone knows what a trap is, so to for dickgirl and others i'm forgetting, so without connotations from outside the game, those terms are the ones in use. I'm not trying to dis you with my next statement, it's just a fact but you're not the first to bring this up and you won't be the last, it's a situation with no perfect solution, either it risks offending people or confusing them, the writers decided clarity is more important in this context, try to step outside of the usual dialogue and see the terms used here in isolation for none are intended to be insulting.