I want to see more options that let you stay a virgin. I've been trying to keep my virtue intact as a fun challenge for my second playthrough now, but it's been difficult for the wrong reasons. There's a lot of characters where, for some reason, instigating sex for the first time forces you to have penetrating sex, such as Brint and Garret. At least for some, like Brint, I can still have fun with them via threesome, but it's not the same.
During most of the first-time scenes, it keeps track that you are(/were) a virgin going in, why not at the very least have a check going in making it clear that it's your virginity or nothing and allowing you to back off, if not do some other non-penetrating scene? I get the want for having a specific scene for the first time, but it's rather annoying because there's already comparatively few (non-enemy) male characters to play with, and this just narrows my options further. Thank god for Quin who just brings you to the normal options, which actually has a decent selection of non-penetrative sex.
Also, while on the topic, some more indications of what is penetrative and what's not would be nice, especially when it doesn't always follow the same rules. Post-fight sex with the Alrune and her tentacles somehow still left me with an intact hymen and virgin butt, but then doing it again with the repeatable option leaves me gaping, even though the language in the scenes themselves was the same/similar (essentially saying tentacles in both scenes went everywhere). More non-penetrative scenes would be nice too, but I understand writing the new scenes is probably harder than adding a pop-up description or check for existing ones.
Edit: also the option for pregnancy while a virgin would be fun