I totally understand where everyone else is coming from here, but I
really like that TiTS and CoC include what would be unsafe BDSM in the real world. The fantasy is being used and discarded by a bad person and coming back for more anyway because you're
that much of a slut. Garret's content isn't
super my thing because of the lupine PC requirements and emphasis on canine behavior within the scenes, but I enjoy that general style of fictional domination a lot.
I understand why it's a huge turnoff for some people, though, and why it makes certain characters unlikable in a nonsexual sense. (Even if I like Garret's style of domination, I wouldn't ever want to go out for dinner with him.) I'm the opposite — if a scene gets
too into the kind of negotiation, care and sweetness you would naturally want in a real BDSM relationship, it kind of kills the vibe.
I've played an example of a game that does do this. At any point during the sex scenes, you can pick the option to say your safe word, and the character immediately stops and makes sure you're alright before cleaning up and sending you on your way. It works well there, because the engine allows the placement of a dedicated Safe Word button outside the text box.
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I love this game! Alexis Royce's naughty stuff is really top-tier, especially in the absolutely miniscule market of "good porn games made for women and AFAB people." And the safe word mechanic is really nice.