I had a veritable book written, but I want to at least try to keep this shorter than it was.
@Tide Hunter You've got my reading mostly right. When I originally posted, I thought that that people would chime in explaining the problems with the Kitsune content, since in my mind the Xenophobia is explained by the worldbuilding of the setting, which is what I was articulating. Thank you to forum goers that have explained what they don't like about the Kitsune in more detail.
This game seems to take the task of worldbuilding very seriously. Just take a look at codex entry for races, specifically the history parts of them. It has used real world parallels to fuel its worldbuilding. So I'm not surprised to see a xenophobic/isolationist faction. There are factions that hate Boreal elves for example and they say that very clearly in game. Xenophobia is already in the game with or without the Kitsune. Its just not directed explicitly at the PC.
The game was never fully disconnected from the nastiness of the real world and history has explicitly inspired it. I am not mounting a defense of any of it. I do find it interesting what bad things players do and don't flag in relation to real-world parallels. The game starts with a woman being kidnapped by a sex cult and a central character kills so many of a village's young people that she's exiled with the expectation that she will die of exposure in the frigid cold. The game doesn't just say this either, you play it. It's perfectly reasonable to be turned off by the xenophobia and find that reason enough to dislike the content. I just assumed that there was much more I had to be missing given the rest of this context.
@TheIrishOtaku Speaking of horrors in the game, I invite you to read the codex for the Taeleer - another bit of horror with real-world parallels. To be frank, I don't like the entry. I'm not sure the author considered the type of backlash politics it would have. There would almost certainly be a faction hellbent on destroying any remnant of the Belharan empire out of revenge, but animosity isn't even mentioned as a possibility. Like the fallout politics were never considered. In fact they are culturally just said to mirror Belhar as though there would not be a movement to return to what was remembered pre-enslavement and reject everything from Belhar. I hate - and i mean despise - the casual thoughtlessness of the entry.
But it does represent consistent world-building from the authors, and I am so thoroughly used to the fiction I consume being written without the point of view I represent in mind, that I can shrug my shoulders and move on. Its how I have to engage with pretty much all media. There's a lot i could nit-pick. But life is short and you learn to pick your battles. To you its unacceptable that people in the game consider you an outsider no matter what you do. Yea, it sucks. To me, that's Tuesday. Most escapism including porn is similarly indifferent to my personal politics, and people like myself are so thoroughly habituated to casual frustration that Its usually not worthy of mention. I don't say that as a woe is me moment. I say that to illustrate that not everyone has the same relationship even to the "escapism" that we consume. There are people who will have good reason to call out the things that I will personally gloss over too. The Kitsune don't stand out as particularly remarkable. I didn't even register their xenophobia in my playthroughs, which is partially why I was curious about reception of them here on the forum
Digging deeper would be saying something like: It can't be the case that mere real-world nastiness is the problem with the Kitsune in and of itself, since that type of material is all over the gameworld and the sections that include it don't get nearly as much flack. Why is that?
That's a rhetorical question. Don't @ me. I'm only here because I was called to account for interpretations of my comments. I do not have the time or energy to litigate this all day. I don't mean any of what I'm saying as callout. My frame of reference is observation and reflection rather than tear-down. Having read through some of the ToBs posts provided by Resewar, I'm under the impression that the tone of his responses are as much responsible for the sour milk as the Kitsune themselves. Showing contempt for your readerbase, no matter the reasoning behind it, is likely to turn people off. He did not mince words but he did say what I've been saying. The game is clearly drawing from the real world and invoking parts of it in no uncertain terms. Anything else is picking and choosing what we will and will not tolerate - which is a hard conversation but not an unworthy one. It tells us a lot about ourselves and is another useful thing about fiction. Where is that line drawn and why? Again. Rhetorical. This question will not be on the test.