I'm bi, leaning closer to lesbian (probably something to do with having a long term same sex partner) but... man, I have a hard time sorting out my preferences. I think I have a pretty wide range of turn-ons, to which monster-rawing fantasies bubble up now and again. God damnit CoC and similar games... I'm old, I shouldn't be discovering new fetishes in my 30's, should I?
IRL, soft-bod smart and creative types are wonderful. I love exploring FWB relationships with other nerds, mostly platonic with some romance? I guess that falls more into poly activity but I don't know how to address that, because I wind up just wanting to get close, smooch, hair-pet, etc. but I'm not sure I'd make a move to sex? There's a feeling of commitment there that I don't think I could shake.
On the other hand, I find myself physically turned on by athletic men and women, which is inconvenient when working out or at work as I work with some pretty amazingly sturdy or lithe people who go hard at whatever their sport or activity of choice is. I don't relish the idea of getting emotionally close with a more athletic person because of the competitive spirit and potential personality clashes I expect to find. I often hear some gently but consistently misogynistic blather at my gym and it really bothers me, so I've started to expect those behaviours from others... and I don't like my competitive streak because it makes me stupid, haha. I'm already awkward enough, I'd rather be a cooperative semi-athlete than a cross-fit bastard.
Blather aside, bi + confused on the details, probably has some romantic-involvement requirements but I'm not sure I'd consider it demiromantic because I'm not sure if that's a tumblr term or a legit thing.