To everyone calling me out about Ryn:
I may be here often, but that doesn't mean I know everything. I don't read every forum post and I certainly haven't seen anything about people asking this often. I simply remembered the dialogue from a scene and thought "If she wants feel like a woman, why not fully commit" especially if you're playing as a guy and she's usually on the recieving end.
Also, it was just a hope Hethia gets a bit more content. It seems she's mostly been sidelined after you take back the Ice palace, and I honestly like the druid elf with a different perspective on things. She herself says she doesn't like the palace much, so is visiting our wayfort from time to time really that bad?