Having a way to get the 'Reserved' Perk, like spending too much time doing Hawkethorne's Chapel's Cloister.
Helps if wearing the
Choker of the Pain Slut normally or while tanking without an shield and having it equipped, so it doesn't go up too fast so you don't have to constantly be consuming
Ice Wine to keep your libido close to 40 so to not have too much negative Focus from that mechanism.