Also: Savin has this terrible habit of just reading PM's through the email notification, which doesn't give the sender a timestamp or confirmation that he's seen it. Stop doing that, you silly 'mander.
I do this. It allows me to read people's PMs and then respond to them in my own damn time, without heaping on the stress and expectancy that comes from the other person knowing I've seen their message. This course of action becomes justified when I check back and see that you have visited the message history before I've replied, in other words checking to see if I've viewed it.
I can absolutely be screwed up as you. Deal with it.