So, on the one side, we have what Lovecraft believed to be a manifestation of evil - he did not mince words about this - a great power that slumbered in a dark corner of the world; a power that was so far separated from human comprehension that it caused madness and mayhem simply by existing; a god that cared nothing for its worshipers, who formed an insane cult looking forward to the apocalypse it would visit upon the world were it ever to awaken.
On the other hand, we have gods that sometimes do shitty stuff and sometimes do decent stuff and sometimes genuinely do amazing stuff; who walk among the living and interact with them on a regular basis; who act an awful lot more like mortals than you'd expect to the extent that that is one of the first things that Sanders tells you about them (and who, despite Mallach's gesture in the direction of having trouble understanding people, are never shown with anything other than mortal-like emotions and behaviors, in very sharp contrast to the literally incomprehensible Cthulhu); who genuinely do care for their worshipers, both personally and in the form of regular minor miracles for them, and who have not spawned a mad apocalyptic cult.
These are simply not similar things and the comparison is not useful in the slightest. It's certainly not "halfway there". These are two entirely distinct kinds of deities. Seriously, ratchet the "gotcha" attempts back. The comparisons are more and more overwrought and less and less tied to the text of the game.
Your claim that the gods are completely untethered to mortal understanding is stretching Mallach's conversation about River to its absolute breaking point. Mallach doesn't think mortal life is completely incomprehensible. "Fascinating", sure. An experience somewhat distinct from that of the gods' by virtue of immortality and immense power, sure. Imbued with a sense that they'll not quite ever be able to enjoy reality in the exact way mortals do, sure. But not impossible to understand. The Mallach that messes with the Champion in their little conversation about River is a junkie for life experience. He "gets" mortal feelings and emotions, and uses the likes of River to feel them as fully as he can. And the other deities spoken to directly, Nareva and Keros, are also shown with deeply mortal feelings and actions: amusement, anger, guilt, pride, even genuine caring. Sanders says it in Champ's very first meeting with him: the living gods really are an awful lot like mortals, especially in their personalities. Nothing we've seen so far, not even their origins, has done anything to modify that.
There are points where you stretch the game text even further. At no point does the game text say that the Seven killed "as many, maybe more, than they saved". That's just outright made up. And you then go on to blame the Seven for the destruction of Belharan civilization, aka that thing that the Wraiths - you know, the entities that they were fighting - did. For someone who claims to appreciate Nareva the most out of all the Seven based on her conversation with Champ, you don't seem to have paid very close attention to the way she talked about the Godswar.
It's genuinely not fun to have conversations based on half-truths, exaggerations, and inventions, and if your goal is to get me to stop responding to you, then you're well on your way to succeeding.
For what it's worth, I want to say again that I think it's totally fine to not like the Seven, not trust them, not be okay with the way that they do things. It's difficult to be fully okay with any being of immense power that regularly intervenes in people's lives. And despite the undeniably good things that they've done, they're imperfect beings and their record is still mixed. Like, if you personally, or your player character, doesn't like or trust the Seven, or doesn't think that the former Wraiths have managed to atone for their prior existence, more power to y'all. Those are absolutely valid opinions to hold.
But what you're doing in this thread is creating a headcanon of malevolence that is simply not attested in the game. Where I answered the question "how could people worship these beings" with a fairly straightforward answer, you're posting your cherry-picked gotchas and arguments with me as though you think that it's impossible to understand how the people in the setting could worship the Seven. And that's just silly. What are you even arguing with me about at this point? Like I said, I'm not trying to convert you to a fictional religion that nobody in the real world, least of all myself, believes. I'm just trying to explain the characters in the game and correcting you about lore.