That's really the same problem as
romance in mainstream rpg games, what matters most? Diversity and uniqueness or accessibility? Having straight, gay, nich sexuality characters etc... make npc richer in how they're characterized. But it also put some people at disadvantage, one group will always end up the unsastified minority. Even more for a game run by fan submissions and commissions, there's not really a clear solution to guarantee all groups feel fulfilled by the content proposed. It's understandable but it also kinda suck when you're the one getting left behind.