Yeah well I find the use of polite, respectful, considered language to be very sexy so you're demonstrably wrong.
And like, you could design the most horrifying extreme porn game and a ton of people would find that sexy so you wouldn't ever tone down anything. Like robot, I'd also love to see less inappropriate name-calling where it doesn't even make sense. This makes me recall a VN called Mutiny where a woman wanted to be tied-up bdsm-style, the other woman started calling her a slut and so forth, and she's like "none of that please" and the other one responds "oh okay sorry". That was nice. But apparently almost every woman in TiTS wants to be called/calls herself a slut/bitch/whore.
Isn't it though?? That's kind of like saying "bitch" or "whore" isn't gendered, sure you can apply it to a guy, but 99% of the time it's getting applied to a woman.
I really hate that one too. But oh, haven't you learned that kind of derogatory namecalling only goes one way? /s
Where did you quote these from? I just manually checked the past 6 pages, then used the search bar, and came up empty.
Also, ftr, I have been called a slut during sex, and I am a male.