Yeah none of those are indicators of a power fantasy. They're just character details.
For me, the biggest power fantasy aspect of these games (besides the obvious "Fuck whoever you like in whatever holes you like and don't get every STD ever" aspect) is still the pregnancy content. Again, this goes beyond merely being able to father an entire town's worth of children on half the single women in Savarra or the Galactic Frontier, or carry from anyone with a dick or ovipositor. It's in the smaller details. Our kids being taken care of for us no matter how many we have or how different they are from conventional people as a species, pregnancies always carrying to term without any complications or in-utero health scares, our children are always happy to see us and (usually) on their best behaviour, not having to engage with kids getting sick, or needing their nappies changed, or not going to sleep because it's a Thursday and the sun was in their eyes for a split second. You cannot tell me this isn't a hugely idealized version of what pregnancy and parenthood is like, but of course it's fine, because this ain't Super Princess Maker and we're playing these games to fuck, not raise a family.
For me, the biggest power fantasy aspect of these games (besides the obvious "Fuck whoever you like in whatever holes you like and don't get every STD ever" aspect) is still the pregnancy content. Again, this goes beyond merely being able to father an entire town's worth of children on half the single women in Savarra or the Galactic Frontier, or carry from anyone with a dick or ovipositor. It's in the smaller details. Our kids being taken care of for us no matter how many we have or how different they are from conventional people as a species, pregnancies always carrying to term without any complications or in-utero health scares, our children are always happy to see us and (usually) on their best behaviour, not having to engage with kids getting sick, or needing their nappies changed, or not going to sleep because it's a Thursday and the sun was in their eyes for a split second. You cannot tell me this isn't a hugely idealized version of what pregnancy and parenthood is like, but of course it's fine, because this ain't Super Princess Maker and we're playing these games to fuck, not raise a family.