You begin with Azyrran being interested in you and can reciprocate, fine, she's been updated to be upfront about being polygamous, so that's fine, but it doesn't really seem to be polygamy it seems like Liaden is the wife and you're the concubine. You can do everything Liaden can but Azyrran's always fawning over her, the dawnsword quest you either give it up to Liaden or everyone guilt trips you because Liaden didn't get it, she talks about wanting to spend more time with her but then gives you the "oh yeah, you're nice too though" as a female you can at least join in but as as a male in particular it really comes across as being a third wheel. You stumble across them having sex and she's openly hostile, She doesn't seem to be interested in anyone else either, if she was exclusive to Liaden and pc couldn't get involved with her it'd be a fine monogamous relationship, but it doesn't really feel like polygamy or her harem it just feels like you're a fling and liaden's her actual partner