Very confused

[Amyra]

I'm confused because i know I've always chosen to protect jill/jack in the game and flirt every time. i danced with them on dhaal and what not and chatted on the train but the options to flirt are still greyed out for the meeting on Phaedra. is this like the frostwyrm bug resetting their name on an update and now I've got to redo the entire game just to see these scenes. if so I'm seriously annoyed.

 

[Theron]

Did you give or receive head on the Train?

Setting RIVAL_KISSED to 1 should fix this.

 

[Amyra]

Did you give or receive head on the Train?

Setting RIVAL_KISSED to 1 should fix this.

I wasn't given the option
And i dont know how to do this

 

[Theron]

I wasn't given the option

Motivation->Recruit Cuz->Flirt with [Rival]

And i dont know how to do this

This is easiest with the Save Editor.
1. Follow the link. (When I tried to link directly, the post was flagged to require Moderator approval.)
2. Load your save.
3. Go to the 'Flags' tab.
4. Search for RIVAL_KISSED
5. Set the right field to 1
9. Save.

You can also do it via a Text Editor, but you have to find the part of the save where the Flags are.
1. Open the save in a Text Editor like Notepad.
2. Search for "inactivePlayerOwnedShips"
3. Go to the } on the left. Those are the flags.
4. Copy-paste
,"RIVAL_KISSED":1
before the }