I was being probabky too cheeky, heh. But, honestly, that is the metric I go with. The game is quite traditional when it comes to gendered roles, especially when it comes to your relationship with men. You are either a woman/bottome to most men since the game makes assumption that mostly bottoms are into them, or, in case of femboys, the game thinks you are the more muscular/manly one since it assumes mostly straight leaning men are into them.