Does anyone know how many healing scenes is enough? And do you have to do certain ones? (Such as just finishing the healing, or seduce and assert.)
Because nothing is clear about this, and I have not been able to unlock anal since it has been available. (I've been playing since the game came out, but I can't remember when fun times with Kiai came oout.)
I don't think you have to do certain healing scenes, just seduce or assert (I always went seduce) and pick your choice. Try cuddling with her as well as sexing her up.
There are several times in her talk menu where you can comfort/listen her about her childhood, growing up and her parents, comforting her when the chance arises will boost your relationship.
At the crossroads, there is a random event where you can give coins to a hapless stranger. Giving the coins will increase your relationship with her. I think there are a few scenes exploring in Rigard, where you can talk with her about some statues, play nice and it should boost your relationship. Eventually a sex button should show up, when you click on it the first time she should freak out. Go back to healing sessions and being nice around her.
I think that sexy times are related to your relationship with her, I can't remember the exact number but it needs to be fairly high (50-ish or so). You can check your relation in debug mode, turn it on and click on Kia under the party menu, it should show in bold letters.
When your relationship is high enough, one of the talk options (Talking about your meeting with her, I think) will give you an option to confront her about it. After that you should be able to get you some sweet, elf loving. You can put it in her pooper or she can put it in yours (If she has a dong or a strap-on)
Hope that helps some. Biggest things, keep at the heeling sessions, go through all of her talk options and be nice to strangers around her.