I think you're confusing me and JDeko, as I'm probably the most vanilla person on the forum.
Rough Sex is good, though I prefer it when the bottom is *not* being meek and submissive, but rather egging their partner on for more, either through teasing or positive encouragement. A meek or submissive attitude just makes it seem they're not really into it, atleast in my view.
And I prefer them blissed out and quivering in pleasure as I praise them for being such a good girl. Egging me on and any vocalization other than, moaning or a series of delirious "yes"es and proclamations of love and such irritate me and make me feel like my being and/or efforts is undermined.
And I like to be able to act meek and submissive, giving affirmative consent kills the mood for me. Much more than rose petals and candlelight my dream would be made to do housework in just an apron, high heels, and a knobby vibrator which is routinely taken out to make way for a strapon as I'm pressed firmly cheek-first into the table I'm being bent over and told what a good Pet I am.
Say, would you mind that being an actual dick instead of the strapon and a guy at the other end of it?