Some part of me REALLY wants to pull out a soapbox. I'm just going to put this out there. Dominance is NOT degradation or any of the other things that have been touted as being "bread and butter" for Doms. Every one of those things is a potential tool to a dom. I have seen a dom so effective that all they used was a piece of string (yarn I think it was), and after witnessing it I came to understand that they didn't even need that. Dom is not, in its nature aggressive or mean or . . . gah. . . I had decided NOT to pull out my soapbox >.> Meh these games and through them this forum are places to feed your fetish