What do you look for in male gay porn?

[cobra]

Since i'm not homosexual and have no insight in gay porn this is a query for those who do. If you like men having sex with other men what are you looking for in it? Is it like lesbian porn where all the guy needs to be hyper-masculine with bodybuilder builds and big dicks or something else you need to objectify it? ((Please don't take that last statement the wrong way. Don't mean to offend anyone.))

 

[ScarletteKnight]

I don't look at a lot of m/m stuff, but I tend to enjoy a smaller, cuter bottom and a bigger, manlier top, and I like big dicks in general. Just like anything else, romantic stuff is always nice too, seeing them be soft with each other.

In contrast, I have developed a fantasy of topping a manly man for some reason.

 

[ShySquare]

all the guy needs to be hyper-masculine with bodybuilder builds and big dicks

Speaking as someone who is not a guy, what you're describing here tends to turn me off lol (unless the guy has a nice, sweet personality, and even then it's 50/50).
Beefy, manly dudes with big dicks are a straight male power fantasy, not a straight female sexual fantasy (idk about gay/bi men here, though, and it's a generality; there are women who like beefy, manly men with big dicks, but that's usually not what women in general focus on?)

I can only speak for myself, but when I read m/m content, I prefer twinks and twunks with realistically proportioned dicks, tbh.

I also like variety, so characters who switch whether they top or bottom is a plus in my book, and scenes that don't exclusively revolve around penetration. I mean, it's nice, but it gets boring after a while. As I said, variety.

Also, I'm really picky bc I need the characters to have personality/an interesting dynamic/relationship, but then it's because I'm really like romance in my smut lol

 

[ScarletteKnight]

Speaking as someone who is not a guy, what you're describing here tends to turn me off lol (unless the guy has a nice, sweet personality, and even then it's 50/50).
Beefy, manly dudes with big dicks are a straight male power fantasy, not a straight female sexual fantasy (idk about gay/bi men here, though, and it's a generality; there are women who like beefy, manly men with big dicks, but that's usually not what women in general focus on?)

I can only speak for myself, but when I read m/m content, I prefer twinks and twunks with realistically proportioned dicks, tbh

My toys have spoiled me, I can't help it!

But yeah, beefy dudes aren't an instant turn-on. For me it's the face that makes a man attractive, not the body. And obviously a shit personality is a no.

It's weird though, 'cause a couple years ago I wasn't into men at all. I'd heard that when you start hormones your sexuality could fluctuate, but I wasn't on hormones when it happened.

I also like variety, so characters who switch whether they top or bottom is a plus in my book, and scenes that don't exclusively revolve around penetration. I mean, it's nice, but it gets boring after a while. As I said, variety.

Also, I'm really picky bc I need the characters to have personality/an interesting dynamic/relationship, but then it's because I'm really like romance in my smut lol

Oof

 

[ShySquare]

Oof

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[ScarletteKnight]

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Sorry, been talking to my little sister too much. I meant uh, that's pretty hot too. I agree with the statement.

 

[cobra]

Speaking as someone who is not a guy, what you're describing here tends to turn me off lol (unless the guy has a nice, sweet personality, and even then it's 50/50).
Beefy, manly dudes with big dicks are a straight male power fantasy, not a straight female sexual fantasy (idk about gay/bi men here, though, and it's a generality; there are women who like beefy, manly men with big dicks, but that's usually not what women in general focus on?)

I can only speak for myself, but when I read m/m content, I prefer twinks and twunks with realistically proportioned dicks, tbh.

I also like variety, so characters who switch whether they top or bottom is a plus in my book, and scenes that don't exclusively revolve around penetration. I mean, it's nice, but it gets boring after a while. As I said, variety.

Also, I'm really picky bc I need the characters to have personality/an interesting dynamic/relationship, but then it's because I'm really like romance in my smut lol

So would you consider this hardcore or softcore then?

 

[ShySquare]

Sorry, been talking to my little sister too much. I meant uh, that's pretty hot too. I agree with the statement.

oh okay, that's a relief. I was afraid I'd said something cringey

On topic: I wonder what guys who read m/m content like too

 

[ShySquare]

So would you consider this hardcore or softcore then?

Idk, it depends on how explicitly the sex is described/shown. It's just my personal preferences anyway

What do you like about m/f or f/f content?

 

[cobra]

Idk, it depends on how explicitly the sex is described/shown. It's just my personal preferences anyway

What do you like about m/f or f/f content?

I just like feminine female/futa with female/futa content in general although I think traps MIGHT be slowly growing on me...

 

[ScarletteKnight]

So would you consider this hardcore or softcore then?

Yeah, it really depends. Even being absolutely railed can be considered soft if the scene is intimate. One thing I absolutely hate is seeing anything with anal labeled "hardcore", it's really dumb.

What do you like about m/f or f/f content?

Honestly, it really varies, but it's basically the same; almost always someone getting anal, but it could be anything from vanilla to Domination or intimate to casual. I tend to like big tops, whether they're penetrating or being penetrated, but the reverse is also sexy.

And I've kinda got a thing for porn that has girls with dicks, just as it relates to me, not fetishizing other trans girls. Seeing guys with vaginas is also nice, but much rarer, and I still prefer anal scenes with them.

 

[Fengathor]

I'm a bi guy,lean more toward straight though. So m/m isn't really a go to most of the time.

I usually prefer guys with a twinkish build or more of a toned look. Big bodybuilder types are iffy. In things like Tits/Coc and some 2d art I can get into it. In actual porn not so much.
When it comes to dick size,I prefer big dicks in my porn. Access to bigger toys kinda pushed it that way.

As far as actual scene content, I like a bit of everything, but a preference for actual penetration in m/m scenes. Frottage is pretty enjoyable as well. Prefer switches to dedicated tops and bottoms, and scenes where they flip are a favorite.

And I've kinda got a thing for porn that has girls with dicks, just as it relates to me, not fetishizing other trans girls. Seeing guys with vaginas is also nice, but much rarer, and I still prefer anal scenes with them.

Same, well minus the relating part. Feminine and a dick? It's a win win in my book.

 

[ScarletteKnight]

Same, well minus the relating part. Feminine and a dick? It's a win win in my book.

It might sound kinda cheesy, but I really like finding stuff where they're just treated like any other girl, y'know? Romantic stuff is the best.

I particularly like Ciaran, as far as TiTS goes, because of his sex scenes and the way he just treats me like a woman. Geoff is also pretty cute, getting flustered at first and then doing his best.

But women are definitely more attractive to me.

 

[Foxxling]

There are a lot of people who prefer women answering a question about m/m and that is one of the reasons I love this community.


So as far as who I find physically attractive I have a whole person philosophy where I look at certain parts but consider overall attractiveness. The face is the most important, ass is second and mid-section is third... but just because a guy's face isn't 100% doesn't mean I don't want to do the do or at least watch him. Physical build wise I'm good with daddies, twinks, twunks, cubs, regular guys, bara bodybuilders and even dare I say midgets. Body hair is generally a turn on.

Personality is not a huge factor in my porn because it is the main factor irl and porn is strictly for getting my rocks off i'm not gonna marry it. So if a porn star as a great personality it is a huge turn on but not required.

Kink list: Creampies, gay for pay, first time, rape fantasies, sleeping, bukkake, group sex, size difference, role play... this isn't a complete list but its good enough.

I like scenario porn ig... like there's a site called young perps where security guards "catch" guys stealing, take them in the back and blackmail them into sex. Things like that are cool. Group sex, catching a bugular and getting "revenge". Kinky bondage, romance, submission, switches... there's a lot of different stuff I like. It doesn't have to be scenario porn either it can just be two hot guys making the beast with two backs.

idk there is a lot to unpack here I'll probably comment again tbqh.

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Yet if we're talking about these games i prefer masc but not narrow. Basically masculine guys that can have fem traits but overall feel masc. I like buff daddies that want a good railing, Geoff is the perfect boy next door switch and I love it. idk but with TiTs we need more masculine guys imo

 

[cobra]

I'm good with daddies, twinks, twunks, cubs, regular guys, bara bodybuilders and even dare I say midgets. Body hair is generally a turn on.

This is really outside my element because I don't even know what some of these are! lol! So if someone like Ron Jeremy was gay would he be someone you fap off to?

 

[ScarletteKnight]

There are a lot of people who prefer women answering a question about m/m and that is one of the reasons I love this community.


So as far as who I find physically attractive I have a whole person philosophy where I look at certain parts but consider overall attractiveness. The face is the most important, ass is second and mid-section is third... but just because a guy's face isn't 100% doesn't mean I don't want to do the do or at least watch him. Physical build wise I'm good with daddies, twinks, twunks, cubs, regular guys, bara bodybuilders and even dare I say midgets. Body hair is generally a turn on.

Personality is not a huge factor in my porn because it is the main factor irl and porn is strictly for getting my rocks off i'm not gonna marry it. So if a porn star as a great personality it is a huge turn on but not required.

Kink list: Creampies, gay for pay, first time, rape fantasies, sleeping, bukkake, group sex, size difference, role play... this isn't a complete list but its good enough.

I like scenario porn ig... like there's a site called young perps where security guards "catch" guys stealing, take them in the back and blackmail them into sex. Things like that are cool. Group sex, catching a bugular and getting "revenge". Kinky bondage, romance, submission, switches... there's a lot of different stuff I like. It doesn't have to be scenario porn either it can just be two hot guys making the beast with two backs.

idk there is a lot to unpack here I'll probably comment again tbqh.

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Yet if we're talking about these games i prefer masc but not narrow. Basically masculine guys that can have fem traits but overall feel masc. I like buff daddies that want a good railing, Geoff is the perfect boy next door switch and I love it. idk but with TiTs we need more masculine guys imo

Yikes, is it really that bad?

For the most part I read porn instead of watch, so personality is more a factor. But yeah, no story means it doesn't really matter.

I feel really shitty about having a rape fantasy, I know it's a painful event for people, but I can't help thinking about being raped sometimes.

Anyway, definitely need more guys, even if I prefer women more often.

Edit: Came back to question myself on that time frame of liking men now that I realise I've been picking some male romance options for a long time now....

 

[Stemwinder]

Beefy, manly dudes with big dicks are a straight male power fantasy, not a straight female sexual fantasy (idk about gay/bi men here, though, and it's a generality; there are women who like beefy, manly men with big dicks, but that's usually not what women in general focus on?)

I can only speak for myself, but when I read m/m content, I prefer twinks and twunks with realistically proportioned dicks, tbh.

I also like variety, so characters who switch whether they top or bottom is a plus in my book, and scenes that don't exclusively revolve around penetration. I mean, it's nice, but it gets boring after a while. As I said, variety.

Also, I'm really picky bc I need the characters to have personality/an interesting dynamic/relationship, but then it's because I'm really like romance in my smut lol

That sums up my feelings. What I like out of m/m when I am in that mood usually isn't bodybuilders with huge dicks so much as boyishly cute ones. It's not as though I've never liked the big types before - of all things I was watching Star Wars Rebels and there's this big alien who does this sort of playful bullying of the smaller main character and after a few episodes of them I was getting those vibes - but they've got to work a little harder to get me on board.

Pseudo m/f with two boys is nice, too, whether one of them looks the part or not, but I'm with you in that I get as tired of seeing traps or twinks or any other sort always relegated to the bottom as I do m/f stories where the girls are always bimbos or helpless waifs or otherwise are obviously catering heavily to the idea that feminine and submissive go hand in hand.

And I do like a nice story to go with it and no rape. Why is it so hard to get away from m/m stories where some arsehole rapes another guy until they like it?

 

[Stemwinder]

It's weird though, 'cause a couple years ago I wasn't into men at all. I'd heard that when you start hormones your sexuality could fluctuate, but I wasn't on hormones when it happened.

People are generally a lot more open in their attractions than they allow themselves to be. It's very mental. If you internalize years and years' worth of masculine culture telling you that gayness is the antithesis of masculinity (as if that makes any sense!) you develop a mental block against it. If you're then trying to delve into femininity that block can be eroded and you'll start noticing and liking things you hadn't before. Especially if you start socializing with women; a lot of girl-talk, as with guy-talk, involves talking about the opposite sex so almost by necessity you have to get into that to some extent be able to relate.

Not so weird when you think about it!

 

[Foxxling]

This is really outside my element because I don't even know what some of these are! lol! So if someone like Ron Jeremy was gay would he be someone you fap off to?

Ron Jeremy is fucking hideous lol

Um... hold on I can provide pics

Spoiler: Non-Porn Hot Guys Warning:there are a lot

I tried to provide a bunch of different races, body types and amounts of body hair. Each guy on here i find physically hot and a very objectified way. Their personalities are a non factor, except with Jim Halpert who is #1 husbando off personality alone but also is fortunate in the face. I'm not one of those people who go for personality, story or romance with people who aren't irl but that's jus me.

BUT while i don't look for romance it is a def turn on. A story even if it is a lil cheesy is a turn on. I like things other than just bodies, butts and creampies but also bodies, butts and creampies are usually what i'm looking for.

I feel like i'm contradicting myself but like... i tow the line on everything.

Yikes, is it really that bad?

For the most part I read porn instead of watch, so personality is more a factor. But yeah, no story means it doesn't really matter.

I feel really shitty about having a rape fantasy, I know it's a painful event for people, but I can't help thinking about being raped sometimes.

Anyway, definitely need more guys, even if I prefer women more often.

Edit: Came back to question myself on that time frame of liking men now that I realise I've been picking some male romance options for a long time now....

Is what really that bad?

To me the rape fantasy is ok (most of coc was straight up rape) as long as it is done consensually or in fiction... the problem is real rape not role play but yeah i also know exactly how you feel. There is a lot of guilt surrounding even my sexual preference in and of itself sometimes. It is something we all have to deal with I think, not the orientation thing but guilt for enjoying things that are actually ok to enjoy.

Also... male romance options?

 

[ScarletteKnight]

Is what really that bad?

To me the rape fantasy is ok (most of coc was straight up rape) as long as it is done consensually or in fiction... the problem is real rape not role play but yeah i also know exactly how you feel. There is a lot of guilt surrounding even my sexual preference in and of itself sometimes. It is something we all have to deal with I think, not the orientation thing but guilt for enjoying things that are actually ok to enjoy.

Also... male romance options?

All the lady preference in the m/m thread.

Yeah, there's just something about it that makes me feel wrong for having that fantasy.

Oh, just in other video games. Basically, I've been freely picking men or women to romance for self-insert character for a full decade, and was completely oblivious to the fact that I could sexually enjoy men for over half that time... I knew I was trans that far back, but I guess I was still too in the closet to realize I could like men.

 

[Foxxling]

All the lady preference in the m/m thread.

Yeah, there's just something about it that makes me feel wrong for having that fantasy.

Oh, just in other video games. Basically, I've been freely picking men or women to romance for self-insert character for a full decade, and was completely oblivious to the fact that I could sexually enjoy men for over half that time... I knew I was trans that far back, but I guess I was still too in the closet to realize I could like men.

I think anyone who enjoys m/m at all can talk about it. Most places the gays are just... well... gays. Bisexuals if they're there don't comment because some ppl can be super toxic and anti-inclusive to just about everyone who isn't a male caucasian homosexual. but i'm not going to get on that soapbox i just like the variety and inclusivity of Fen games, even if m/m lovers are a minority.

and on your last point sexuality exists on a spectrum and is somewhat fluid. if society was more inclusive more people would be open to that sort of thing, including myself lol

 

[ScarletteKnight]

I think anyone who enjoys m/m at all can talk about it. Most places the gays are just... well... gays. Bisexuals if they're there don't comment because some ppl can be super toxic and anti-inclusive to just about everyone who isn't a male caucasian homosexual. but i'm not going to get on that soapbox i just like the variety and inclusivity of Fen games, even if m/m lovers are a minority.

and on your last point sexuality exists on a spectrum and is somewhat fluid. if society was more inclusive more people would be open to that sort of thing, including myself lol

Yeah, I get what you mean. People have this notion that if you're bi you're just indecisive and noncommittal, a massive whore, or both. Oh, and sorry for thinking you were being sarcastic before, I totally misread the situation because it was text.

I'm mostly just surprised at myself for not getting it sooner. Which, you're right, would've been way easier if people weren't so unaccepting.

 

[Stemwinder]

It's certainly far more malleable and fluid than most people are willing to admit or discover but, as you say, that's mainly due to all the toxicity and negativity - from the puritanical shame surrounding sexuality period to hang-ups like boys making a link between "gayness" and being unmasculine, another whole layer of shame - surrounding western sexuality in particular. Not to mention the social aspects. Sexuality isn't allowed to be a simple expression of your desires, whimsical as those can be, you're supposed to pick a team and then conform to all the norms of that lifestyle. If you're not officially gay or straight you're just some weirdo who won't get with a program. Saying you're bisexual opens up all sorts of assumptions about you.

 

[Coalsack]

Hmm, seems like I'm going to be an unpopular opinion, but I'm a bit more rigid on my sexuality than most gay guys out there, end even more than my heterosexual friends. For me, you're in or you're out, you are A, B,or maybe, maybe C. It may be something to do with my upbringing in a more or less traditionalist country, but I also really don't like the idea of being with someone and that he suddenly stops liking me because his sexuality is 'fluid'.

Regarding body types, I usually prefer tall and strong men. I strongly dislike exaggerated muscles, but a bit (or a lot) of beef here and there is certainly appreciated. Just don't get overboard with it, ok? I don't like feminine features on men, since well, appeal-wise, I dislike feminity in general. I'm neutral on body hair, but excessive facial hair is a turn-off for me. And no matter their body shape, be buff, lean or even slightly chubby, I'd like my men clean and well-kept. I take special care of my body hygiene and kinda expect the same from others.

Regarding race...hmm...well I have to admit that I only like Caucasian or Mediterranean white men.

 

[Jash]

As a bisexual gynephiliac, I generally only like feminine men (of course that's definition of what a gynephiliac is; not attracted to women specifically, but to femininity). That isn't to say I only like crossdressers or transwomen, but in general if a guy isn't at least pretty enough to pass for a woman if he tried, he's too masculine for me. There's a degree of leeway there, but Bara, really masculine men and especially muscular, hairy men are a major turn-off for me. Oddly, furry porn moves these goalposts a lot- I'm much more forgiving of masculinity in furry porn than elsewhere, although outright Bara is still too much. (Even more oddly, I actually quite like musclegirl porn- I guess they're just living proof that heavy musculature really isn't inherently "masculine".)

So yeah, I mostly like trap stuff and slender prettyboys.

 

[Grizzabella]

Intimacy...not just 2 dudes screwing each others brains out, but tender loving moments during sex...

A tender loving caress of one's face during penetration
Looking up into the others eyes with love and admiration while sucking.
Postcoital cuddling.

Things like that are a major turn on for me and turn an ok porno into an amazing one.



Chubbs are a plus too

 

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