On another note, while I'm already here....I'd kinda want a dad character. Y'know, someone with experience and responsibility to guide Steele a little more. Azra has the age requirement but she's stuck doing nerd things, I don't think Dane is capable of filling such a role and the other crew members need -you- to be the responsible one and help them through their problems one way or another.
I think I'd enjoy a mix of say, Iron Bull and Sten or Thane (the Drell Assassin from ME2). Someone who's fun to hang out with but who also is capable of being proper support when things get rough. Space Qunari dad when?
I'm really surprised by the fact everyone wants daddy type characters.
I've gotten used to joining groups and seeing "plz gimme femboys only no masc" but to be fair you ppl loved submitting too (or dominating) akbal so I really shouldn't be suprised.
- What fetishes and features would you like included in a male follower?
Preg is a fetish I adore, and characters with cocks and no worry of carrying a kid themselves can have many fewer concerns and scruples about knocking someone up. Heatsex is another fun one. Other than that, it really depends on the character and what suits them individually!
- What do you think of our already implemented male followers?
Kase is a cutie and likely going to be on my crew for all my Steeles in the future. Ben/Bess is not my cuppa, really.
T-T mpreg would be awesome but everybody keeps saying, "oh its too hard. no one is interested in it, not enough bang for our buck, too much work." Like I'd be fine with the mpreg system just having specific male npc's be able to be impregnated (cause I wouldn't even get a mpreg mod if they got one I don't wanna get butt preggo I don't even like stuff going in there frfr).
but I understand the many issues with it but there's a whole branch of content that I can't do because, for some reason, mpreg wasn't built into the game at ground level which is no one's fault at all, love FenCo for making the game and including m/m at all, but it still sucks.
I was making a few points and they seem to have been confused.
First is that the gay aesthetic, all the bears, the twinks, the relationship dynamics that're tacked onto being tops and bottoms, as well as much of the look, the lifestyle - simply packing that up and putting it into this setting will feel dissonant.
That's all a result of our culture; orientations themselves as a way of framing sexuality are a result of our culture. We're very boxy (I like -only- this and refuse to consider anything outside of it!) while the TiTS culture is very libertine and loose with its definitions. So all the specific things that might get a gay man reading going could very well feel odd in the game, as a few others were saying - that the definitions for feminine in the game are very loose while many in the topic are being very rigid in the way they're defining a masculine follower.
Once again this is an argument that makes gender un-gating FAR more likely.
You say we're very boxy and TiTs isn't but like...
Besides, let's be honest, TiTs isn't some gender identityless mecca void of societal pressures against sexual roles anyway. Sure civilized space would probably have evolved past all that due to transformations. In UGC space the body would be more for self-expression or utility anyway because of how easy and affordable it is to change that about yourself.
The same can't be said about the new additions to the galactic fold brought on by the rush. The Korgonne, in particular, have gender roles. These roles don't have a social stigma when they're broken (if breaking Lund is any indication) but they're there. Same with the Zil tbh except sexual dominance is a tribal thing you earn so ig sexual roles aren't as stringent then either.
I have another question though... you say that packing homosexual relationship dynamics up and putting them into this setting would feel dissonant but couldn't the same be said for heterosexual relationship dynamics?
So rather than arguing for no gating I'm saying that gating can be loose, to fit with the style and setting of the game, and that a gate should really be more about flavor. Rather than strictly male/female a m/f can be masculine/feminine and a m/m scene can be masculine/masculine - and that the audience and the writers both have to make a few concessions on those boxy specifics because that's just the game: one big unboxing.
I wrote a big giant response to this then realized we're saying the same thing.
NO ONE wants content to be homogenized. I don't want Cirian to treat me like a girl when i'm a big masc guy that could potentially kick his ass. I don't want the same content I want MORE content that is well written. It is a game I want a way to accomplish the thing I want to do versus a wall saying oh you don't have the plumbing to get this.
Take Geoff, again, for example. It doesn't take much to get him on board with having sex with the player regardless of gender but if you're fem he gets that you're flirting with him pretty quickly whereas if you're masculine he thinks you just want to watch him work, misunderstands subtle flirting, and you have to take a different approach. That makes my dick hard and also, if it is taken further, can have real gameplay elements included that make the reward, the sex, more worth it.
There is nothing wrong with Cirian preferring females over males but, and I mean this with every fiber of my being: IF HE GETS IN AS A FOLLOWER AND IS STILL GENDER GATED I'LL BE BIG MAD. Like not to put too fine a point on it but there is a super finite amount of males in the game already so them being gender gated is annoying but there are plenty of cases where
And I keep talking about Cirian because he really isn't all that gender gated. If you're a male he says naw but later in convo he says that if he was stuck with a bloke for a while he wouldn't mind doing the dirty if he had to, I just want that to be a thing my masc steel can do with him with him possibly having an additional stipulation, like my steele saving his butt, in order for my pc to top.
So, while I did explain myself more, I do realize we're actually talking about the same thing. The soft gate is cool to include and breaks up the click here to have smex imo.