I'd suggest you start by going arround Hawkethorne and get to know the place better, trying to know where each npc is in the map and what their function is, which is also a good way to unlock a few missions right off the start. Also, returning to the place where Calla gets kidnapped and following the path to where the cultists dissapeared is also a good idea, since you get the oportunity of recruiting one of your first companions (be prepared for a fight, though, but it shouldn't be that hard)
Alternatively, or after doing the later, head to the north gate and enter the forrest, very begginer friendly area which'll help you get a grip on some of the basic mechanics of the game while exploring the wild, and also another way to get another starter companion pretty easily. Get in as many fights as you can to level up your pc, so that way you can safely explore the other two zones around the village (or rawdog them, if that's what you prefer)
As for equipment, i don't know what to tell you. Find weapons, armor and accesories that complement your abilities, perks and overall playstyle, just mostly experiment with it, though if you have a mage character, the staff they give you at the end of the tutorial is an okay starter weapon.
Also, do yourself a favor and switch to "Manual" combat flow on the menu. Thank me later