For my Steele I usually try making her look like my avatar though I have experimented with a half Nalleen half Kaithrit hybrid
Basically, I like experimenting with race combinations till I get something that's pretty unique
Right now I'm a half-gryvain that's also part Nyrea and part Kitsune. Getting that combination took a whole lot of patience because the effects kept canceling each other out. Oh and I've been hypermilky ever since I discovered it was a thing. Also Vanae markings are a necessity as well.