I have been looking through the menus in the codex looking to see where I can change my character's pronouns (from he to she) but I can't seem to find it. Am I just being blind and missing it? lol
Click the bust, click the button under the popped-out image. Or 'N', then 'M'. Or Codex -> Appearance.
Currently, Appearance crashes the game if you have a penis, though.