Charmer weapon recommendations?

[DorkyAria]

With the charmer changes going public, I've been toying around with stuff, but I'd love to get some recommendationa for builds/gear and most importantly, weapons. I used to use the control rod + harp of waves since stuff like Dischord was a spell, but now I'm not sure what's good. Do you still need a catalyst? I'd love some advice!

 

[Darnock]

Considering spellpower is completly worthless now going all in on sexiness and temptation will always be your best bet, some of the otherwise kinda pointless items like the girthy rod are quite useful now even if you don’t ever want to tease. Not sure if you actually still need the weapon to be a catalyst but any which give sexiness usually have the tag so it’s a moot point.