I don't want to offend them.
I want to make them just uncomfortable enough that they'll behave like flipping adults (which they
should be) and read the forum's rules
before they complain about stuff whose rules and solutions are referenced in the pinned threads of a forum,
or demand that a certain feature be implemented,
or pitch an idea that they have no intention of writing in the Ideas subforum,
and are subsequently assaulted with a slew of old forum regulars telling them to
Lurk Moar and
Git Good and
Read the Pinned Threads You Dimwit,
which then devolves into unnecessary drama,
which is of no help to anyone and only serves to maintain an unhealthy, borderline toxic mentality in the forums
So yeah. Imo, implying that they are innocent, naive,
childlike babes is the best way that I've found to get the worst of them to not behave like whiny entitled brats
(well, most of them have good intentions, but people who don't know the forum's etiquette are quite annoying, especially when they all arrive at the same time) and actually stay on the forums.
Sorry for the wall of text. I have opinions on the matter.