Preamble: I'd like to state this is personal opinion, not objective fact.
First off, let's get things that are not reasons I dislike her out of the way.
Now, that cleared up, let's go on to the reasons:
First off, let's get things that are not reasons I dislike her out of the way.
- Because she's an abusive dom: Yeah, no, sorry. I have fantasies about being enslaved and abused, some of which I'm worried are a bit too dark to even share here. I've had fantasies about me or my characters being abducted and brainwashed from gay to bi or even het.
- Because I think racism can never have a place in sexual fantasy: Sexual fantasy often approaches that which is taboo, and despite my political leanings, I heavily oppose "kink-critical" and "sex-negative" attitudes that try to police such. I've done the occasional bit of racist roleplay, either with real-world races or fantasy ones. (One I've tried a few times but never done in a manner I was satisfied with was a guy inadvertantly MCing/reality-warping a catgirl by going on about she has to be dumb, slutty, cockhungry, etc. based on stereotypes)
- Because she's only interested in female characters: If she's really only interested in pussies, more power to her. I adore Andromeda from Flexible Survival Singleplayer, and have a character who has this attitude for multiple reasons.
Now, that cleared up, let's go on to the reasons:
- She's racist: I know this sounds kinda contradictory, but even as I acknowledge that racism can be part of sexual fantasy, her racist character is really grating to me as someone who has to deal with a lot of bigotry. (Though thankfully not actual racism)
- She's racist in a boring, unsexy way: She stereotypes you as criminal, tells you to get off the station, etc. She shows no sort of racist objectification or sexualization unless you actually approach her seeking sex. And when I tried to do that, just to see if she got better? I used a save I had of a half-Kaithrit, first day, no transformations. Something I'd kinda expect to have some decent objectifying, personhood--denying racist taunts built in. What I got amounted to "CAT! CAT! YOU'RE A CAT!" Yeeeahhhh... was not impressed.
- She misgendered my character: Okay, this is small, and maybe a little bit petty. but when I tried to proposition her while playing a human male attempt at a pre-everything trans girl with gender pref. set to female, she complained she was only interested in girls, and that's... the first place I saw my character not get referred to as a girl despite what they were packing. That was a fairly unpleasant surprise, especially since, despite missteps, TiTS does actually seem to try on trans inclusiveness and representation.
- She's untouchable: I've heard this is supposed to change (though what I've heard about how isn't super-promising about actually changing it rather than just papering over the problem), but there's effectively nothing you can do about her. Reporting her -- the most obvious, sensible action, goes nowhere. Punching her just makes her mad and cuts off further interactions... and if there's any other way to attempt to deal with her, I didn't yet find it.
- That she's untouchable is narratively weird: The amount of amazing, impressive things you can do in this game is fairly high, yet you can do fuck all against her because of her supposed dangerous friends. Not even an opportunity to go "screw that" and find out, oh, hell, you really did get in over your head, whoops, Bad End for you. It just stops cold.
- That she's untouchable is immensely frustrating: For me, dealing with bigots I can do fuck all about is basically Tuesday. When I'm confronted with them in fantasy contexts, I'd kinda like to be able to... actually have the power I don't have in reality. Call me silly.