I was referring to Embry. Them starting out as a guy may have thrown off Spades' memory.
She identifies and presents as female from your first meeting though, IIRC.
She is explicitly laid out as a trans woman and therefore is a woman, not a guy. If you really want to get technical with assigned genders with trans people, she is DMAB (Designated Male at Birth) or alternately AMAB (Assigned Male at Birth). Just a little tidbit on proper respectful etiquette on describing trans folks. And no, sorry whether they've transitioned or not does not affect what you call them; they are always what they identify as. And yes, please do respect even fictional trans people because true acceptance is being respectful even when no one can see or it doesn't seem to matter. It's a good habit to check ourselves if we slip up anywhere so that it's second nature to us to use correct pronouns for people. No one will get mad if you slip up; just correct yourself and move on.
(Edit: just clarifying that the "you" here is a general you and not aimed at anyone in particular. I'm just a bit more forceful because I have seen some posts around this forum that are.....pretty disrespectful towards trans individuals.)
In other words, Embry and Kaede are both girls and should not be counted regardless of stage of transition because they both explicitly consider themselves female. And in a world where people of literally of any gender can look however the heck they want.....what genitals and secondary sex characteristics they started out with should matter even less. That's the nice thing about this game; a person who looks completely like a traditional female is still male because that's what they consider themselves and same goes for anyone who looks traditionally female (hmmm, I actually would like to see a species where the females look traditionally masculine in a similar vein to the Nyrean and Ovir males looking traditionally feminine).
On topic though, I don't recall seeing anyone at the Myrellion Hangar. The only hangar that has an NPC lounging around is Tavros Station's with Vahn, and I don't think you can romance him unless sexing counts. Otherwise, it's only specific encounters like Kiro or Kaede, and if you decide to help Embry with transitioning she does lead you to a ship that offers board to people.