He's saying you are perhaps overly attached. Based on your posting history, you seem to be laboring under a lot of misconceptions about what kind of game this is. It's got a story, and when there's opportunity to explore something interesting with that story then it's worth taking it. But ultimately the goal of the game is to provide fapfuel. The plot is a contrivance to put the player character in a position to have lots of consequence-free sex with hot aliens, furries, space elves, etc. Everything else is secondary to that goal. That's not to say we should ignore the rest or not take pride in our work, but let's also not forget what we're doing here.
Then it might be time for me to stop playing. If this isn't a game that half erotica half epic quest and is instead porn with RPG battles... then maybe I should just go play something else. I don't want to fuck random women and then wander off and just repeat that. I wanna save the universe with a hot wife at my side watching my back gunning down monsters trying to ambush me. And as I've said before it's hard to get that with anime art and modern dialogue. This game seemed to fuse anime JRPG east with western RPG Mass Effect west. But if even the finished game in 2019 isn't gonna scratch my itch, then I'm sorry I wasted yall's time with my suggestions. They must've sounded dumb. In hindsight I see why I didn't see anyone mad about Trench Wives and Deliah's problems.
In closing, before I go, the game was fun. I liked a lot of characters and there were some good battles. And I'll admit there were some sex scene written so well I did them over and over just for the hell of it (Penny, Kelly, Aliss, Saerenda, Kiro, Flahne, Irelia, Taivra, Deep Lake Queen, Lieve & co, Shade, Anno, Syri, Celise, and of course Xanthe). Yall do good work. Respect.
Later.