Message for the Discord: Thank you and goodbye

[XBoxMaster131]

Well, it was fun. But I guess I wont be getting another chance at it. It's a shame, but... I'm gonna do my best to not let this bug me too much. Even though it's a pretty big punch in the nuts.



If one of you could relay this message to them, I'd really appreciate it.

To all my pals on the discord that I likely wont see again: Milf, SmolBee, Sophie the Floof, all the rest... thank you. You guys made my day every time I logged in. I'm not good at talking to people and making friends. But you guys made it so I didnt feel so alone. You made me laugh. And cry. And all sorts of other things. It was fun. But now, it's over. Im going to do my best to move on from this, and use it as a way to improve myself so it doesnt happen again. And I'm hoping this wont affect my enjoyment of TiTS or CoC. Maybe I'll find a way back some day. Though I'm crossing my fingers, I wouldn't bet on it too much. But hey, who knows? And at least I've still got the forums. Anyway, to sum it all up, to all my pals on the discord... thank you, and goodbye.

 

[JustSomeGuy]

F

 

[Ghost58]

I'm confused as to the context here.

 

[ScarletteKnight]

I'm confused as to the context here.

He was banned from the FenCo Discord, and he's not taking it well. "Press 'F' to pay respects" is a Call of Duty meme.

 

[Ghost58]

He was banned from the FenCo Discord, and he's not taking it well. "Press 'F' to pay respects" is a Call of Duty meme.

Oh, thought he was dying or something but it's just a discord ban. Didn't even know we had one.

 

[XBoxMaster131]

Oh, thought he was dying or something but it's just a discord ban. Didn't even know we had one.

Lol, nah. It's just a really big deal for me, cause it was by far my primary source of human interaction for the better part of a year. So... yeah.

 

[Ghost58]

Lol, nah. It's just a really big deal for me, cause it was by far my primary source of human interaction for the better part of a year. So... yeah.

Not trying to be a dick or anything but I don't think Fen & Co hand out bans out of the blue so something must have prompted it.

 

[Raindrops]

Lol, nah. It's just a really big deal for me, cause it was by far my primary source of human interaction for the better part of a year. So... yeah.

Also not trying to be a dick here, but... Seriously dude, that is not healthy. Go outside and interact with people, don't get all of your human interaction from a porn forum.

 

[XBoxMaster131]

Not trying to be a dick or anything but I don't think Fen & Co hand out bans out of the blue so something must have prompted it.

Yeah, I know. I was a bit pushy at times, and I spammed general chat a lot with youtube videos, but in my defense, I talked with a mod and he gave me the green light!

Maybe after a while I'll try my luck to get back on. Wish me luck. Cause lord knows I'll need it.

Also not trying to be a dick here, but... Seriously dude, that is not healthy. Go outside and interact with people, don't get all of your human interaction from a porn forum.

Yeah, I know. I'm already seeing a therapist, so hopefully that will get resolved at some point. Again, wish me luck.

 

[Crablord]

life gets better

F

 

[Emerald]

Also not trying to be a dick here, but... Seriously dude, that is not healthy. Go outside and interact with people, don't get all of your human interaction from a porn forum.

This.
It's just a group ban, it's not the end of the world, Xbox stop acting like it is because it's making me cringe a little and I usually NEVER cringe. If you got banned you obviously did something wrong. If you're not let back in then I suggest shrugging your shoulders and going on with your day. It's that easy.

It's not as if you're banned from every fengame related site, you're still here aren't ya? You can still talk to folks here so idk why getting banned from ONE group on an app is so deep to you, it doesn't help that you were begging to be let back in at one point which just looks pathetic if you want me to be honest.

Just shrug and move on, it's not that deep, and obsessing over it isn't healthy in the slightest because this is literally the most minor thing you can fret over.

 

[Evil]

I have to support what Emerald and Raindrops are saying.

This isn't healthy. Having just one source of social interaction is not healthy. And while I like this forum (its one of the better ones I've belonged to), its not a "social" forum, at least, not in the manner you need. It's okay to invest yourself in a community, but it seems like you're pouring your whole self into one place and I think this ban from one small aspect of that is indicative of why that can be a bad idea.

I know you've said you're going to a therapist and that's good, keep seeing them. That's getting back onto the right path. But you need to expand your social circle. If its actually talking to people face to face, then there are probably support groups in your local area. Or join an activity group, walking groups are good, there's minimal conversation unless you want it and its fresh air too, which is always good. If you prefer an online community, again, look for a support community. Or a forum where you can vent or just talk to people about personal matters.

The salient point is that you need to take a step back for your own mental health. The people here, want you to be okay, they want you to be healthy. The people you have become friends with on here will welcome you back with open arms.

 

[XBoxMaster131]

This.
It's just a group ban, it's not the end of the world, Xbox stop acting like it is because it's making me cringe a little and I usually NEVER cringe. If you got banned you obviously did something wrong. If you're not let back in then I suggest shrugging your shoulders and going on with your day. It's that easy.

It's not as if you're banned from every fengame related site, you're still here aren't ya? You can still talk to folks here so idk why getting banned from ONE group on an app is so deep to you, it doesn't help that you were begging to be let back in at one point which just looks pathetic if you want me to be honest.

Just shrug and move on, it's not that deep, and obsessing over it isn't healthy in the slightest because this is literally the most minor thing you can fret over.

I have to support what Emerald and Raindrops are saying.

This isn't healthy. Having just one source of social interaction is not healthy. And while I like this forum (its one of the better ones I've belonged to), its not a "social" forum, at least, not in the manner you need. It's okay to invest yourself in a community, but it seems like you're pouring your whole self into one place and I think this ban from one small aspect of that is indicative of why that can be a bad idea.

I know you've said you're going to a therapist and that's good, keep seeing them. That's getting back onto the right path. But you need to expand your social circle. If its actually talking to people face to face, then there are probably support groups in your local area. Or join an activity group, walking groups are good, there's minimal conversation unless you want it and its fresh air too, which is always good. If you prefer an online community, again, look for a support community. Or a forum where you can vent or just talk to people about personal matters.

The salient point is that you need to take a step back for your own mental health. The people here, want you to be okay, they want you to be healthy. The people you have become friends with on here will welcome you back with open arms.

I know. I know. And you're right. But I'm seeing a therapist, and, tbh... I think I'm, like, 65% over it, by now. Which may not sound good, but the very first time something like this happened, I experienced physical discomfort due to the sheer stress, including a massive headache, and was essentially gaslighting myself for several weeks.

So, yeah, I think I'm making a lot of progress!

I'm trying to stay positive right now, and I think things are rebounding for me. I made up with a couple of friends today that I thought I had lost the other day, so that's great!

Ive got a long road ahead. But now, I'm confident that I can make it. Once again, wish me luck!

 

[null_blank]

Well think of it this way: you no longer need to use an app that doesn't support SSL and data mines you.

 

[XBoxMaster131]

Well think of it this way: you no longer need to use an app that doesn't support SSL and data mines you.

Wait, data mining? You serious?

Eh, fuck it. Not like theyll get anything good from me. I got fuck all in my bank account, and the only "vital data" I have is in my image gallery.

 

[null_blank]

Wait, data mining? You serious?

Eh, fuck it. Not like theyll get anything good from me. I got fuck all in my bank account, and the only "vital data" I have is in my image gallery.

Well they're not stealing your data exactly, they observe conversations and disclose trends to buyers (and that's an extremely simplistic explanation). You can look it up by simply searching on how Discord makes money.

 

[Violent_Peace]

Tbh fen discord is full of soft hearted people who can't really handle shit in my opinion, you make people think you are talking about something that has nothing to do with the topic at hand and they are bound to cry about it.

And no offense Xbox I felt you were gonna get banned sooner or later dude, they banned me but eh I don't really care. Sooner or later those people that are all soft hearted and that come here too are gonna try to change things here and you'll probably be banned again on some stupid shit.

Personally like everyone is saying just move on with it and keep it pushing, if you want to use discord still just join another one that isn't full of cunts that will ban you for asking too many questions about a subject when they are feeling In the dumps.

 

[Raindrops]

Tbh fen discord is full of soft hearted people who can't really handle shit in my opinion, you make people think you are talking about something that has nothing to do with the topic at hand and they are bound to cry about it.

And no offense Xbox I felt you were gonna get banned sooner or later dude, they banned me but eh I don't really care. Sooner or later those people that are all soft hearted and that come here too are gonna try to change things here and you'll probably be banned again on some stupid shit.

Personally like everyone is saying just move on with it and keep it pushing, if you want to use discord still just join another one that isn't full of cunts that will ban you for asking too many questions about a subject when they are feeling In the dumps.

I think I can see why you were banned.

 

[B]

Tbh fen discord is full of soft hearted people who can't really handle shit in my opinion, you make people think you are talking about something that has nothing to do with the topic at hand and they are bound to cry about it.

And no offense Xbox I felt you were gonna get banned sooner or later dude, they banned me but eh I don't really care. Sooner or later those people that are all soft hearted and that come here too are gonna try to change things here and you'll probably be banned again on some stupid shit.

Personally like everyone is saying just move on with it and keep it pushing, if you want to use discord still just join another one that isn't full of cunts that will ban you for asking too many questions about a subject when they are feeling In the dumps.

I will gladly handle your shit provided you take the razors out of it first, I can't handle those edges

 

[Lkynmbr24]

Tbh fen discord is full of soft hearted people who can't really handle shit in my opinion, you make people think you are talking about something that has nothing to do with the topic at hand and they are bound to cry about it.

And no offense Xbox I felt you were gonna get banned sooner or later dude, they banned me but eh I don't really care. Sooner or later those people that are all soft hearted and that come here too are gonna try to change things here and you'll probably be banned again on some stupid shit.

Personally like everyone is saying just move on with it and keep it pushing, if you want to use discord still just join another one that isn't full of cunts that will ban you for asking too many questions about a subject when they are feeling In the dumps.

You do realize that a good number of folks from the discord also frequent the forums already, right? It isn't a stretch to say that a discord and forum community are completely different entities, especially since both are moderated by same people (sans Magic Ted on here and a few others on Discord vice versa). So essentially, if you did something that would strike a mod's ire, then I'm sure the same would happen here too if you did the same thing. No need to disrespect those that just simply use an app to talk more directly. More importantly, just don't be a dick, and nothing has to happen.

 

[XBoxMaster131]

Tbh fen discord is full of soft hearted people who can't really handle shit in my opinion, you make people think you are talking about something that has nothing to do with the topic at hand and they are bound to cry about it.

And no offense Xbox I felt you were gonna get banned sooner or later dude, they banned me but eh I don't really care. Sooner or later those people that are all soft hearted and that come here too are gonna try to change things here and you'll probably be banned again on some stupid shit.

Personally like everyone is saying just move on with it and keep it pushing, if you want to use discord still just join another one that isn't full of cunts that will ban you for asking too many questions about a subject when they are feeling In the dumps.

Lol, thanks. That makes me feel a bit better.

But yeah. I'm trying to move on, get my shit together, and use this to better myself. And I might try to get back on at some point, once everything is all sorted out in my head. But again, I wouldnt be betting on it too much.

I think what I miss the most was how... casual things were there. Like here, you always have to stay somewhat on topic in accordance to the thread topic, but there, you could just speak up about whatever and strike up conversation.

I also miss posting videos, and seeing people discuss them. Maybe I'll make a thread for that in the general section, Magic Ted permitting, of course.

 

[TFMaster]

I also miss posting videos, and seeing people discuss them. Maybe I'll make a thread for that in the general section, Magic Ted permitting, of course.

I don’t see why not especially since there’s all kinds of different threads in the general section talking about all kinds of different things, also there’s a few threads related to just posting videos already such as the funny and sexy music videos one.

 

[XBoxMaster131]

I don’t see why not especially since there’s all kinds of different threads in the general section talking about all kinds of different things, also there’s a few threads related to just posting videos already such as the funny and sexy music videos one.

I'll do it, then. Should be fun!

 

[Violent_Peace]

I will gladly handle your shit provided you take the razors out of it first, I can't handle those edges

Lol, half the time my shit is just straight razors B I don't think you could.

You do realize that a good number of folks from the discord also frequent the forums already, right? It isn't a stretch to say that a discord and forum community are completely different entities, especially since both are moderated by same people (sans Magic Ted on here and a few others on Discord vice versa). So essentially, if you did something that would strike a mod's ire, then I'm sure the same would happen here too if you did the same thing. No need to disrespect those that just simply use an app to talk more directly. More importantly, just don't be a dick, and nothing has to happen.

Well if they feel so deep in their feelings about me insulting them then they can feel free to ban me from their fourms as well, I'll count the seconds till they get around to it.

 

[Violyn]

Me reading this thread

 

[Noob Salad]

You guys fell for the ol' derail.

 

[XBoxMaster131]

You guys fell for the ol' derail.

Lol, your right. Happens in pretty much every thread I get involved with.

 

[XBoxMaster131]

Well if they feel so deep in their feelings about me insulting them then they can feel free to ban me from their fourms as well, I'll count the seconds till they get around to it.

I hope they dont. You seem like a real nice guy. Be a shame to see ya go.

 

[Violent_Peace]

I hope they dont. You seem like a real nice guy. Be a shame to see ya go.

Just like discord I got other places to go, Fen forums aren't the only place I hang around.

 

[HERALD MASTEMA]

One things for sure tho: this is definitely a thread about TiTS